Happy weekend to you!
Is it just me, or did this week pass by fast?
One of my best friends and I have this thing where we tell
each other "Happy Friday's Eve" on Thursdays as we
get excited for the coming weekend...
It seems like I was just thinking that LAST Thursday and here
it is another weekend!
I hope your weekend is off to a lovely start this beautiful Saturday.
In my first post back after being absent from my blog for
most of the Fall, I mentioned that I had some things, after being
away for sometime, to share in a future post...
Well, the main thing is something I wanted to share today...
After 17+ years of being in school and 4 intense years
and summers of college, I'm so excited to say that...
I started my blog in the spring of my first year at my university!
Oh, how time flies! I can't believe that was back in 2012.
I am pondering that as I sit here writing this post that I've been excited
about sharing- to think that blogging was such a central part of
my past few years and my college experience,
sharing the things that motivated me, my joys and new things
I was excited to learn about, day to day life and inspirations,
and even campus beauty that I was blessed to enjoy as I looked around.
Starting college was a major point in my life, a time when
I had more and more begun to fall in love with how much beauty there was
in my Southern roots and in this place I call home. I was realizing more
and more my affinity for the South I grew up in and the South I
have still yet to explore and dream about.
And my faith and relationship with my Savior was also growing so much.
And that all went hand-in-hand with starting writing here because
I was so excited to get to share those things that
"set my soul on fire", so to speak...
and it led to so much more☺
I feel like blogging was a part of what made my years in college
all that much more meaningful because of that.
And most of all, meeting the loveliest girls and ladies, you who
encouraged me greatly through your blogs, comments, and
godly hearts, was such an unexpected blessing that entered
my life at that time, as well.
. . .
I graduated in mid-December!
It was the most exciting moment of
my life so far... preparing for it, having my family there to celebrate
with me and be so supportive, walking across the stage to receive
my diploma as I had dreamed about for so long, and waking up the
next morning realizing I was finished was all so surreal.
I think it just now has begun to feel real. And it is an incredible feeling.
I believe the most exciting part of it for me is that, even though I LOVED
being a student and I thrive on being in school (so much so that it
feels strange to not be going to any classes this semester), after so many
long years of writing essays, doing projects, getting so little sleep,
and not having really any free time...
I am finally able to do things I haven't had time to in these past
four years, and I have time to focus more on family and faith and other
important things, and to study things that fascinate me!
Like archaeology, art, architecture,
heritage, theology, culture, marine biology, meteorology, history, and
other studies that captivate my interest.
And I am so thankful to be at this point!
Decorating my graduation cap was a beyond exciting
part of graduating because it made me start to realize I was
finally at this point that I had been waiting so long for. I chose the
to emblazon the words, "Go confidently in the direction of your dreams."
My graduation verse was Proverbs 16:3,
which I loved having printed on my announcements, but I
had trouble fitting it on my cap... so, I wrote these stirring words,
because they are inspiring to my heart and soul as I continue
my journey and work toward my goals.
They had a lot of meaning to me and inspiration in my mindset
before graduation and now, after.
And like any Southern girl, I added pearls around the border ;)
My parents, who were just as new
to working my new camera at the time as I was, were able to take
some photos from their seat that I loved getting to see that night when I got home
after the ceremony.
The audience and the empty candidates' seats before the
commencement... and all of those diplomas stacked and ready
to be presented to us!
Looking at some of the photos was like reading a
"Where's Waldo" book as I looked for my face, haha.
I think I was looking up right at the camera and I noticed they caught
me not smiling... I'm pretty sure it is because I was both nervous
and overwhelmed by the moment at this point.
And the emotion of the music, the moment, everything was getting to me (smiles)
after being seated and looking around, taking it all in.
I think the thing I didn't expect to happen was that I would
feel so many emotions as I walked in with the rest of my graduating class,
as I sat down, and as I sat there and looked all around me at this
moment that was now real.
The emotions came most of all as I looked up at my parents, who were also
sitting with my great aunt and my Grandpa, and saw the pride in their
faces and their own emotion, and remembered...
the memories all coming back to me of the moments, the days,
the years that had led up to this.
One highlight of my graduation was that my great aunt was able to come.
It was special having her there because she has a lot of health problems.
She sacrificed her comfort to be there and to make the long walk into
the auditorium that I know was hard for her, but she wanted to be
there to see me walk the stage.
My family blesses me so much with their love.
And afterward, I was so pleasantly surprised to see she
had brought me roses! They were SO beautiful and that meant
so much to me. They are now dried and in my room lying atop my bookcase
along with the other roses that were already there that are tied to memories.
Moments in my life that are precious and memorable
are a treasure, and I think one of my favorite things about them is
that left behind afterward are things like my roses, my graduation cords
and stoles, and other things that are keepsakes of the day...
like this little graduation cap decoration that was on the cake my
parents bought me that day.
And maybe years from now, my grandchildren or great-grandchildren
will come upon my keepsake box and find this and other pieces of
what graduation meant to me☺
This past semester, my last, was intense and meaningful
and taught me great discipline.
It was tiring and rewarding all at the same time.
The rewarding part came from getting
to work with some of the sweetest children who showed me
so much love and kindness, while the ones who
were more of a challenge to work with sometimes taught me that
they needed even more love and dedication from me and that
it is important to look past the surface of what you see.
I gleaned so much from working with them
and was so blessed and touched by those children.
The expectations were set high in the program I was in and I came
away with such a heightened understanding of my field.
It grew my confidence and my knowledge in ways
that surprised me.
I know that the only way I got through the rigor and the schedule
and everything that came my way during these past years in
college was by prayer and God strengthening me.
The times when it was 3 a.m. and I just wanted to go to sleep so badly and
I knew I had another hour on a project or a research paper,
God got me through.
In my second year of college when I was sick for awhile
and didn't know what was wrong, I was afraid I wouldn't be able to make
it to class and would get behind... but my faith got me through and
God made it possible because He was bigger than my problems.
I'm so thankful to have had the opportunity to learn and grow
and become the person I am now because of my college experience.
And I have most of all to thank God and to thank my
parents, who loved, supported, encouraged me, and especially invested
in my life, years before college was even a part of my life.
I'm so very grateful!
. . .
As I look back at the past four years, I think of all the aspects of
college that are memorable to me.
And definitely included is...
The beauty of the campus I was privileged to walk around on, the
architecture I so enjoyed admiring like the spires of the main building,
the oldest building on campus that stands proudly at the top of
the tallest hill just as it did well over 100 years ago...
the environment overall and the glittering waters that ran through and
surrounded the area around campus, like the river running through (here are two
photos below that I did not take, but that I think most truly
capture the awesome beauty of the river that runs right through the
middle of campus...
the cypress and other glorious trees I spent many days writing
or spending lunch breaks under by the pond, watching
the squirrels and geese and turtles in the pond...
the shadows of branches that graced the ground on sunny spring days,
the oaks so Southern and majestic to walk beneath...
the displays and cases in the science building with organisms
that I loved to admire on my walks to class, namely
the marine biology cases with abalones (and my degree
involved 9 science courses, so I was in this building a lot!)...
the excitement over finishing projects like my writing portfolio
in my writer's craft class...
cool, rainy days working on papers and assignments in front of
spending time on my studies and poring over my books...
having the honor of being invited and inducted into three
academic and scholars honor societies...
and the moments in between that were exciting, the simple joys,
like going shopping for formals for my formal graduation
(I couldn't help myself- vintage dresses are just too irresistible,
so I got two!)
Whether you are in college, are going in the future, or you love
learning about the world around you or the things that fascinate you
through books and your own studying, I think the most important
thing to remember- that I know I learned from my time spent at
the university- is that learning and soaking in as much knowledge
about a wide range of things is so integral to growing as a person
and staying in love with learning and being inspired.
No matter how you learn, it's so important to keep learning
about what you love and what amazes you, makes you curious,
And never let anything squash your desire to learn.
One of the wisest quotes about learning, in my opinion,
is by Abigail Adams, a quote that inspires me to always seek out
I look forward to this fresh, new year with excitement for learning
now on my own, continuing to be a student every day but just in a
little bit of a different way. And so much of a thrill resides inside me for
the year ahead with the potential that it holds for doing new things,
traveling, and living with a freedom that is new to me... to know
that I am finished and have moved into a new journey,
a time to grow my faith, do things I have been waiting to,
and enjoy the simple things.
Just enjoying God's blessings and His plan.
What was your college experience like, or if you're going to college,
what are you most excited about?
What is your favorite field to study?
Have a wonderful weekend!!
Blessings to you!